Okay boys and girls, a friend and I are having a debate on whether its better to know that you can bone someone or actually bone someone. His thoughts are that he would rather fuck with someones mind then do the actual deed. While I don't disagree with this statement, I feel that there is no other way of sealing the deal then with cock in pussy and nut on face.

In a nutshell, he believes the chase is better than the catch and I believe that the chase is overrated and would rather get down to business.

Your thoughts please.

By the way Dennis, introduce yo mothafuckin self.

i can't believe there is even a discussion about this. duh! how the fawk can you beat thinking about pussy than actually fucking it????? jeebus!

that's what i'm sayin.

the chase IS better than the catch.

It's exciting, and fun. Of course, getting the puss is best, but chasing the cat is better than having it put on a plate, IMO.

Damn yeah, if I don't have to work for it, is it really something I want?

Nothing worth having is ever free, this includes women. If she gives it up without me trying, how many other guys has she given it to?

to as many guys that spit game as well or better than you.

I believe the opposing arguement is knowing you can have sex with them is better than actually having sex with them.

I do agree with you though, working towards something more meaningful rather than getting it right away and trying to work a relationship after that.

IMO, Yes, it is better. At that point, I know I've accomplished what I set out to do, get her to go home with me. I can walk away from that situation and not get myself into something that may end up biting me in the ass. If I go home with her the best that can happen is that I bust a nut... yay! 45 minutes of enjoyment! The worst thing that can happen is almost endless, she has an STD, she's married and her husband comes home, she gets preggers, she wants a relationship(I'm not opposed to relationships but I'm not taking some skank who I nailed after knowing her for 20 minutes home to meet my parents.), she wants a ride home, she sucks in bed, she's a squirter and ruins my nice sheets, etc.

What it comes down to for me is that the potential for loss is through the roof compared to the potential for gain (thank you Business School). Don't get me wrong, there are plenty of nights where I say to myself that I'd fuck a hole in the wall if it were soft and slightly damp but the rational side of me usually bails me out of any trouble my penis would get into (double entendre intended).

EDIT: I forgot to add the best part, if she does turn me down for the one night stand but asks me to call her again, then I'm intrigued and the game shuts down for me, no more bullshit. I won't waste my time on tramps, but if she's able to say no if she really wants to say yes, then she's worth my time and then I'm even more interested.

YOYOYOYO!!!

What up bitches!!! Anywayz doing the deed is the finale when it comes to working a chick over... and that is always a great fucking time... But I believe getting to that point is just as fun!!! Getting them wet with casual stares, intrigueing conversations and beating around the bush has its moments. From my experience, women at hello have an initial force field which is the hardest part for a guy to overcome at first. But once u get past that the game is on. What I've noticed that works is keeping the chicks guessing at all times. Meaning don't appear to be too interested otherwise you will turn on their game face. You wanna show extreme confidence with serious eye contact but not appear too cocky. Have a topic ready to talk about and get women talking which they do best. Let them catch u at a distance looking at them from time to time with a suble smirk. They love that shit! Anywayz I can write a damn novel when it comes to this but the gist of it is keep them guessing, be confident cuz its sexy as hell to them and show a bit of interest but not too much. When women are not sure about what a guy is thinking about them it drives them crazy. It makes them wanna find out what is going on in our minds. They will be intrigued!!!

For the ladies, my thoughts are that the chase is better than the catch. Ladies, do you agree?

The chase is not necessarily better than the catch. However, the catch can often be anti-climatic (pun intended).

yawl know dem girz is taking notes on dis shiet right hur right? dats right, bleed yo secrets to the masses.

Of course they agree! They get to torture us for months, tease us with 1st and 2nd base, and they get to boss us around! They tell us to sit, we ask where and how long! I'm su8re every female loves the 1st few months, because they have our balls in a vice and we can't do shit cause we want some ass!!!

haha!!! on this site, no stone has been unturned i'm sure of it!

Aren't we all a little too old to be playing these games of cat and mouse? LOL

Wha? You learn a lot about each other during the 1st few months. Granted, most of it is BS because datee's are trying to 'sell' themselves to one another.

I dunno what kind of girls you be dating that they let you in the pants right away, but, those girls usually don't last long.

WTF?

Torture you for MONTHS? Umm... seriously, what the fuck.... I'm trying to think of the last girl I took more than a week to get into her pants... nope, can't remember any. I shagged my first the day after I met her.

Hand over your man card bitch.



Back on topic. I prefer the chase, and I enjoy making a girl chase. Making a girl beg for it for extended periods of time is awesome

Robby has been with the same chick for 8 years. leave him alone he don't know what he's talking about.

Fuck chasing, no games, I want to get er done

I'll ask a few more chicks if need be ;)

(11:54:59 AM) me: out of curiosity, whats the longest you've made a guy hold out?
(11:55:22 AM) unnamedgirl: now is this when we are bf/gf or just hanging out
(11:55:50 AM) me: from the point when the guy wants to get in your pants, and you decide to make him wait
(11:56:42 AM) unnamedgirl: well honestly it depends on the guy
(11:56:48 AM) unnamedgirl: anywhere from a week to a month
(11:56:55 AM) unnamedgirl: it really depends though
(11:57:19 AM) me: but a crafty guy could potentially make it sooner than a week right?
(11:57:26 AM) unnamedgirl: oh m sure
(11:57:27 AM) unnamedgirl: im*
(11:57:28 AM) unnamedgirl: lol